My husband is a sweet man, a good man, we’ve been together for 5 years, we have 2 children, and our first came very quickly into the relationship, needless to say, right from day one, we didn’t get a lot of alone time.
To top off covid mania, sleepless nights with crying children, and busy schedules, my husband also works shift work, two weeks away at a time, and when he’s home, he runs a full time business. The last year, everything culminated after our son was born, at the height of the first lockdowns, where we live, and our relationship grew tense. Its been a long year of ups and downs, but mostly, a long year of learning that if we want our relationship to survive, and thrive, we needed to seek outside help. Therefore, we got a therapist, and one of the issues I mentioned in our short bio to her, was that we needed help in the bedroom.
In the last two years, there hasn’t been much more than once or twice, where my husband and I actually took our time to enjoy each other physically, when he’s home, and if he’s in the mood, we usually wrap it up, in the dark, half asleep, in under ten minutes. Its all been very straight to the point, and as someone who’s sex drive topples her husbands, I’ve been craving much more.
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